A listener needs some space too

People said that I am a good listener.

BUT

Aku jadi sangat messy bila org cakap non stop x nak berhenti, and then dia expects kita dok dengar. Nak2 when my mood macam haram. Tapi dia does not even want to listen apa aku cakap. What I did are:

• Said hmmmmm, oh ye, oh macam tu and etc
• Not look to their eyes. Cari idea pandang tempat lain. Pretend tak focus. Cara ni selalu berkesan. Cth ekstrem:

                                         

• Balas balik like story telling competition. Self centred. Bagi die diam terus.
• If masa tu ada 3 gf, try speak/chat to kawan yang lagi satu tu (yang senyap)...Let minah/mamat yang kuat berleter tu know that dunia ni bkn die sorg yang punya.
• Cara direct to the point. Said: ‘Minah, aku ade hal ni, blablablablablablabla I’ll talk to you later la ye’

Pesanan rakyat: Amaran! cara- cara di atas bersesuaian utk org yg tough ala-ala keras, macam aku. Dont use this kat org tua ek. Tak baik. Nanti ade yang makan siku.